An Empty Box

Once upon a time, a man punished his 5-year-old daughter for using up the family's only roll of expensive gold wrapping paper. Money was tight, and he became even more upset when on Christmas Eve, he saw that the child had pasted the gold paper so as to decorate a shoebox to put under the Christmas tree.

Nevertheless, the next morning the little girl, filled with excitement, brought the gift box to her father and said, "This is for you, Daddy!"

As he opened the box, the father was embarrassed by his earlier overreaction.

But when he opened it, he found it was empty and again his anger flared. "Don't you know, young lady, " he said harshly, "when you give someone a present there's supposed to be something inside the package!"

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Often we're told that we have to suffer now — give up what we want — in order to succeed later, that in order to save we must sacrifice. Give up instant gratification to get delayed gratification.

But you can do both.

For years, I was confused about this, as I read books and websites that sent me two different messages:

Pleasure later. The first message was that in order to be successful, in order to build wealth, you have to delay gratification. You can't have instant gratification and be successful.

Pleasure now. The second message was usually from other sources on Happiness, but sometimes from the same source: enjoy life now, while you can, because it's short and you never know when your last day will come. Live every day like it's your last. Trouble is, I agree with both messages. And if you read this site often, you’ll see that I send both messages: Live frugally and simply! But also enjoy life!

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就為了今天,我會很快樂;就為了今天,我將磨練自己的意志;就為了今天,我會製定一個計畫……

昨天,今天,明天, 也許選擇今天最為明智。昨天已經過去,明天還未到來,唯有把握每一個今天,笑對今天,才是人生之一大真諦。

Just for today I will try to live through this day only and not tackle my whole life problem at once. I can do something for twelve hours that would appall me if I had to keep it up for a lifetime.

Just for today I will be happy. This assumes to be true what Abraham Lincoln said, that "Most folks are as happy as they make up their minds to be."

Just for today I will adjust myself to what is, and not try to adjust everything to my own desires. I will take my "luck" as it comes.

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更新日期:2008/07/27 08:12 【中國時報 尹德瀚綜合報導】

 喬伊.納瓦若曾任美國聯邦調查局的幹員,在反情報部門服務25年,他的專長是觀察人的肢體語言,以揪出潛伏在美國的間諜。而納瓦若在退休之後發現,用這門工夫來分析男女之間的關係一樣很有用。

 

 納瓦若日前在《華盛頓郵報》撰文說,要判斷一對男女的關係是否健全,最可靠的方式不是聽他們的談話,而是觀察肢體語言,肢體的一舉一動,能傳達很多不為人知的隱藏訊息,包括一個人的思緒、感覺、欲望和意圖。

 

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更新日期:2008/07/26 04:32 蕭承訓、實習記者張雅婷台北報導

一名就讀北部某國立大學的彭姓學生,日前在西門捷運站遇上一名「假愛心、真詐財」的騙徒,佯稱皮包遭竊,結果騙走他五萬六千元的存款,事後彭生向警方報案,並在校內的BBS站中寫上遭騙經過,沒想到引發熱烈迴響,刑事局預防科廿五日呼籲學子注意,以免受騙。

 

有趣的是,被騙後,彭姓學生還向刑事局說,自己曾經看過電視《大學生了沒?》某一集談論防騙的招術,覺得對方手法很像騙人,但當時只覺得昏眩,竟真被騙了!

 

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